Bro Hugs and High Fives: Why Dudes Need Touch Too
Trevor James Trevor James

Bro Hugs and High Fives: Why Dudes Need Touch Too

Forget chick flick clichés about cuddling (though that's important too). This is about guys and why we absolutely need hugs, high fives, and some good old-fashioned physical contact.

Turns out, all this "man up" stuff can backfire. Guys who don't get enough touch can experience a cascade of negative effects, including heightened stress, anxiety, and even a weakened immune system. Yikes!

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Nurturing Intimacy: A Resolution for a Connected New Year
Trevor James Trevor James

Nurturing Intimacy: A Resolution for a Connected New Year

Stepping into the uncharted territory of a new year is akin to embarking on a grand voyage, and as we chart our course through the calendar of possibilities, let us engrave a resolution that transcends the ordinary – a commitment to nurture and fortify the connections that form the very fabric of our existence, starting with the profound bond we share with our partners.

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Physical Intimacy With Someone You’re Not Sexually Interested In
Trevor James Trevor James

Physical Intimacy With Someone You’re Not Sexually Interested In

Physical intimacy can be a beautifully connecting and comforting experience, but what happens when you find yourself sharing physical closeness with someone you're not sexually attracted to? This situation can be challenging to navigate, as it requires sensitivity, open communication, and respect for both your own boundaries and those of your partner.

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What is Sacred Sexuality?
Trevor James Trevor James

What is Sacred Sexuality?

In a world that often views sexuality as taboo or solely physical, the concept of sacred sexuality offers a refreshing perspective. But what exactly does it mean? Sacred sexuality encompasses a spiritual and holistic approach to intimacy, recognizing it as a sacred act that can deepen connections and foster personal growth. It goes beyond the physical pleasure and delves into the realms of emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being.

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The Secrets Of Making Connections
Trevor James Trevor James

The Secrets Of Making Connections

In a world that is growing increasingly digital, making meaningful and intimate connections with other people has become both a rarity and a necessity. These connections are the foundation of our personal and professional lives. They help us grow emotionally and intellectually, fostering a sense of belonging and understanding.

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Balancing Chakras with Bodywork
Trevor James Trevor James

Balancing Chakras with Bodywork

The concept of chakras, originating from ancient Indian traditions, has gained recognition and importance in contemporary holistic wellness practices. Chakras are believed to be energy centers within the body that play a vital role in our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Balancing these chakras through bodywork is a powerful approach to harmonizing one's energy and promoting overall health and balance.

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Understanding the Resistance Towards Men's Nude Retreats
Trevor James Trevor James

Understanding the Resistance Towards Men's Nude Retreats

Men's retreats are rapidly gaining popularity, offering a unique platform for self-discovery, wellness, and spiritual growth. A men's retreat is not just a getaway, but a transformative journey that helps men reconnect with their inner self.

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Inside The Ignite Festival “Love Bubble”
Trevor James Trevor James

Inside The Ignite Festival “Love Bubble”

Have you ever found yourself in a place where every moment simply brims with transformation and love? I was part of an extraordinary team of facilitators, our collective aim - to create a "love-bubble", a haven of comfort and understanding within this dynamic festival. An invisible, emotional greenhouse where growth was not just encouraged but celebrated.

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Emotional Intimacy and Consent: A New Perspective for Men
Trevor James Trevor James

Emotional Intimacy and Consent: A New Perspective for Men

Emotional intimacy, often misconstrued as a women’s realm, is an integral part of human relationships that transcends gender boundaries. It refers to a profound level of understanding, openness, and trust between two individuals, fostering a bond of deep connection and mutual respect. Emotional intimacy is about allowing oneself to be vulnerable, sharing inner thoughts, feelings, fears, and aspirations with your partner.

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Authentic Relating: The Secret to Building Meaningful Connections
Trevor James Trevor James

Authentic Relating: The Secret to Building Meaningful Connections

Authentic relating is a practice based on honest, genuine, and transparent interaction. It's about being real, being yourself, and not being afraid to show your true colors. It's about not holding back, not wearing a mask, and not pretending to be someone you're not. Authentic relating is about connecting with others on a deep, meaningful level.

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Sex Work is Work: Empowering Clients and Shattering Stigma
Trevor James Trevor James

Sex Work is Work: Empowering Clients and Shattering Stigma

In recent years, discussions surrounding sex work have become increasingly prominent. Society's perception of this complex industry is evolving, and it is essential to recognize that sex work is work. It is crucial to shed light on the benefits that clients can experience through engaging with sex workers. By challenging prevailing stigmas and prejudices, we can foster a more compassionate and understanding society.

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3 tips for getting better at sex
Michael Dresser Michael Dresser

3 tips for getting better at sex

One of the biggest myths about great sex is that it ‘just happens’.

Sometime around the sexual revolution in the 1960s the idea that sex was sinful got replaced with the idea that sex is natural. But as psychotherapist and sexologist Esther Perel points out:

“It’s not natural. It’s an art, it’s cultivated, it’s learned, it’s an intelligence. It’s a lot of things but it’s not just something you ‘know’”.

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Experience Blissful Intimacy with Gay Tantric Massage: A Guide to Mindful Touch
Trevor James Trevor James

Experience Blissful Intimacy with Gay Tantric Massage: A Guide to Mindful Touch

As a gay man, I've always been interested in exploring different ways to connect with my partners. That's why I was excited to try gay tantric massage for the first time. It promised to be a unique and transformative experience, and it certainly delivered. In this article, I'll share my insights into the world of gay tantric massage, including what it is, how it works, and what to expect during a session.

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The Art of Vulnerability: How to Overcome Intimacy Issues and Embrace Your Authentic Self
Trevor James Trevor James

The Art of Vulnerability: How to Overcome Intimacy Issues and Embrace Your Authentic Self

We all crave connection and intimacy, but for some of us, the vulnerability that comes with opening up to others can be a scary prospect. Whether it's fear of rejection, past hurts, or a lack of trust, intimacy issues can keep us from fully embracing our authentic selves and experiencing deep, meaningful relationships. But what if vulnerability wasn't something to be feared, but rather, an art to be mastered?

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What’s your relationship with ‘yes’ and ‘no’?
Michael Dresser Michael Dresser

What’s your relationship with ‘yes’ and ‘no’?

Do you find it challenging to say ‘no’ sometimes?

Especially if we have a tendency to want to please, we can sometimes find ourselves saying ‘yes’ when we really mean ‘no’.

So why is this, and what can you do about it?

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Intimacy: The Key to Happiness
Trevor James Trevor James

Intimacy: The Key to Happiness

We all want to be happy. But what is happiness, and how do we achieve it? Some people believe that happiness comes from material possessions, while others believe that it comes from experiences. But what if the key to happiness is something much simpler? What if it's intimacy?

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The Power of Presence: Navigating the Journey of Intimacy
Trevor James Trevor James

The Power of Presence: Navigating the Journey of Intimacy

In our fast-paced world, it's easy to lose touch with the power of presence. We often find ourselves multitasking, constantly checking our phones, and rushing from one thing to the next. But what happens when we slow down and fully engage in the present moment? We open ourselves up to deeper connections and a greater sense of intimacy.

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How to make your sex more mindful
Michael Dresser Michael Dresser

How to make your sex more mindful

Mindfulness has become a buzzword in wellbeing circles in recent years.

But did you know you can bring the principles of mindfulness into the bedroom too?

Mindful sex is an approach that can help you feel more pleasure and connection by becoming more present to what you’re experiencing.

Here are some of the key principles, and some simple ideas to help you get started.

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How to create Intimacy with another person
Trevor James Trevor James

How to create Intimacy with another person

Many people struggle with intimacy. Whether it’s because they don’t know how to build connection or they feel too uncomfortable to share their true selves, there are countless reasons why it can be challenging. But, is that what’s holding you back?

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