Couples’ Coaching for Gay Men

Deepen your connection. Awaken your bodies. Reignite your erotic fire.

This is meaningful couples coaching for gay couples: a deeply embodied, LGBTQ+ relationship coaching experience. If you’re longing to rekindle erotic connection, enhance communication in relationships, and reignite passion in a long-term partnership, you’re in the right place.

Reignite Desire. Restore Connection. Remember Why You Chose Each Other.

Why Gay Couples’ Coaching?

You’ve got history. Maybe years. Maybe a few intense months. But lately, something feels… off. Less touch. Less turn-on. Fewer deep, soul-stirring moments. Maybe sex feels routine—or absent. Maybe you’re not quite sure how to say what you need anymore. Maybe you’re craving depth, play, intentionality… and a little heat. You still love each other, but you miss the spark.

This isn’t therapy—it’s about sacred intimacy coaching and cultivating erotic connection for couples.

Through private sessions (in Los Angeles or on Zoom), you’ll explore erotic embodiment, mindful communication, and heart-centered touch to reignite desire and deepen connection.

Sacred Lovers” is a 6- or 12-week journey designed to help couples like you reignite the flame and deepen your connection. There’s also an Immersive Weekend Intensive option for couples who want a powerful reset in just a few days. It’s part ritual, part coaching, all heart—led by me, Trevor James, Touch & Intimacy Therapist and author of On Being Seen: Chronicles of a Touch & Intimacy Therapist.

‘Sacred Lovers’ isn’t about fixing. It’s about remembering.
Remembering how to touch. How to listen.
How to see each other—naked, vulnerable, divine.

What You’ll Experience

Reignite Your Intimacy & Connection

  • Rediscover touch, passion, and playfulness.

  • Learn to improve communication in relationships.

  • Reignite passion in long-term relationships through erotic connection for couples.

  • Build rituals rooted in sacred intimacy coaching.

Reignite Erotic Intimacy

  • Explore each other’s erotic blueprints via erotic embodiment practices

  • Relearn how to give and receive pleasure with presence

  • Heal performance pressure, mismatch, or shame

What to Expect in Your Coaching Sessions

  • Guided practices that nurture erotic connection for couples through body, breath, and intentional touch—whether in-person or via online intimacy coaching (Zoom sessions).

  • Structured practices, guided meditations, and home rituals designed for couples

  • Gentle, safe exploration of erotic energy and physical touch to create erotic connection for couples.

  • Support from a dedicated touch and intimacy therapist offering sacred intimacy coaching and LGBTQ+ relationship coaching.

Why Choose Trevor James, Touch & Intimacy Therapist

  • Author of On Being Seen: Chronicles of a Touch & Intimacy Therapist

  • Experienced in supporting gay and bisexual men through intimacy challenges

  • Specialized in intimacy therapy for couples—especially gay and bisexual couples—offering sacred intimacy coaching and erotic embodiment practices.

  • A compassionate gay/bisexual relationship coach and touch and intimacy therapist who can help you not only reconnect emotionally but also reignite your erotic connection.

Ready to Begin? Book Your Discovery Call

  • Start with a free, no-pressure 15-minute discovery call

  • Explore which program is the best fit for your relationship

  • Ask questions and get a feel for Trevor’s coaching style

  • Take the first step toward deeper intimacy and lasting erotic connection

Come with your fears, longings, awkwardness, desire, and tenderness. Everything is welcome in the sacred space between lovers.

This Journey Is for You If...

  • You love each other, but feel distant—sexually or emotionally

  • You want to deepen touch, trust, and erotic play

  • You’re open to healing through body, breath, and intention

  • You’re navigating relationship transitions, ruptures, or expansion

  • You’re ready to rediscover each other in a whole new way

Ritualize Your Love

  • Create sacred erotic rituals at home

  • Experience tantric breathwork, devotional touch, and mindful pleasure

  • Reclaim intimacy as a sacred act

Integrate Lasting Change

  • Get weekly home play and practices

  • Receive curated sensual meditations and audio rituals

  • Make intimacy a way of life, not just something you squeeze in

Choose Your Journey

  • Reignite the Flame (6-Week Starter Path)

    Perfect for couples ready to reconnect and rebuild intimacy. You’ll learn communication tools, touch practices, and rituals that spark desire — even if it’s been a while.

    6 weekly sessions (Zoom or in-person)

    Personalized intimacy practices and erotic rituals

    Home play, journaling prompts, and guided check-ins

    Investment: $1,200

  • Sacred Lovers’ Path (12-Week Deep Dive)

    For couples ready to go beyond the basics and explore the full erotic and emotional spectrum. We’ll journey through healing touch, fantasy exploration, conscious kink, and sacred sexuality.

    12 custom sessions with ongoing support (Zoom or in-person)

    Audio guides, pleasure maps, sacred assignments

    Between-session phone or text support

    Bonus: $150 off future retreat or in-person immersion

    Investment: $2,400

  • Erotic Reconnection (Weekend Intensive)

    A single day, fully immersive experience for anniversaries, new beginnings, or times when you need to hit reset. Guided erotic rituals, sensual bodywork, and deep connection in a sacred, private space.

    Full-day private intimacy immersion

    Hands-on sacred touch, ritual, healing, and erotic reweaving

    Ideal for anniversaries, transitions, or reconnection

    Investment: $2,000

 

Frequently Asked Questions

  • This is not couples therapy—it’s specialized couples coaching for gay and bisexual men, and intimacy therapy for couples. It’s experiential, sacred, focused on erotic connection, and deeply embodied.

  • These coaching programs are designed specifically for gay and bisexual couples who want to reconnect, reignite passion, and deepen intimacy. Whether you’ve been together for decades or just a few months, if you’re craving more touch, more erotic connection, and more soul-stirring moments, this journey is for you.

  • This is not therapy. While therapy often focuses on past wounds or conflict resolution, this is a sacred, sensual reset. You’ll be guided through embodiment practices, communication rituals, and erotic explorations that help you reconnect through body, breath, and heart.

  • Each private session is different, but generally includes a blend of guided conversation, partner exercises, breathwork, touch-based practices, and home rituals. Everything is designed to help you and your partner explore communication, intimacy, and erotic energy in a safe, supportive space.

  • There is no requirement to be sexual. All touch practices are guided by consent, comfort, and curiosity. Some couples remain clothed and focus on sensual or emotional intimacy, while others explore more erotic practices. The pace is entirely up to you.

  • That’s completely normal. Many couples come in with different levels of comfort. We’ll establish clear boundaries, safe words, and agreements so each partner feels respected and supported at every step.

  • The main programs are designed for couples, but I also offer individual intimacy coaching for single gay and bi men who want to overcome touch deprivation, shame, or disconnection from their erotic selves.

  • Sessions are available in-person in Los Angeles in my studio, or virtually via Zoom, depending on your preference. The Immersive Weekend Intensive is only in-person.

  • That’s okay. Sometimes emotions surface when we open up about intimacy. I’ll guide you both back to presence, breath, and connection, so the moment becomes an opportunity for growth rather than conflict.

  • Vulnerability is part of intimacy. Everything we do is consent-based, and you’ll never be pushed beyond what feels safe. Many couples discover that simply naming their hesitation helps them relax and enjoy the process.

  • It’s common for partners to have different desires, comfort levels, or curiosities. I’ll help you create a safe space to voice your needs and find the common ground where intimacy and pleasure can grow.

  • Therapy often focuses on talking about problems. This work is experiential: you’ll practice communication, touch, and erotic connection in real time. It’s less about fixing and more about reawakening your bond.

  • Absolutely. This is a space where your erotic self is not only welcome—it’s celebrated. Whether you’re exploring fantasies, sacred sex, or simply longing for more affection, everything you share will be met with respect and care.

  • Absolutely. All live sessions — except for the Immersive Weekend Intensive — are available online through intimacy coaching via Zoom sessions, ensuring your healing and erotic reconnection can happen wherever you are.

  • Yes—our private couples retreat (Immersive Weekend Intensive) is perfect for deep work, offering a sacred intimacy experience that reignites passion and erotic embodiment.

Begin Your Sacred Lovers Journey

Your love is sacred.

Your bond is worth tending.

Your desire deserves devotion.

Whether you're seeking gay relationship coaching, sacred intimacy coaching, or erotic connection for couples, let's embark on this journey together.