How much do you recognize yourself in any of these descriptions of masturbation:

“I do it to relieve tension, like scratching an itch”,

“I know what I like and I like what I know”,

“I find it hard to get aroused without porn or fantasy”

There’s probably not an adult person in the world who hasn’t at least tried masturbation, but most of us have gotten used to a very functional version of it, usually limited by secrecy.

Our clients run the gamut in their sexual preferences. We have many straight clients, and some are bisexual or gay and some are curious or questioning. We don’t ask and we don’t have a ‘sexuality meter’ when you walk through the door. So when a client comes in, are they getting a men’s massage or a gay massage?

There has been a steady increase over the past two decades in the use of the Internet for accessing porn. New sites are appearing all the time, perhaps more so now due to the COVID-19 pandemic. For many, porn may be the sole source of sexual activity.

What’s the first thought that comes to mind when another guy casually mentions he’s “bi?” Depending on your own sexual orientation your answer might range from anticipation to outright panic, or to anger. In general, bisexual males often get a bad rap from other guys.