How to Survive Valentine's Day as a Single Man and Have Fun!

Valentine's Day can be a difficult time for single men. We're surrounded by couples, plastered with images of romance, and constantly asked if we have someone special. But it doesn't have to be a dreary day! There are plenty of ways for single men to survive Valentine's Day with fun and enjoyment. With some creative thinking, a positive attitude, and the willingness to embrace the single life, you can have an awesome Valentine's Day, no matter your relationship status. Here are seven ways to survive Valentine's Day as a single man and have fun!

Celebrate your single life

For many, Valentine's Day is a reminder of the fact that they don't have a romantic partner. Instead of feeling sorry for themselves, single men can use the occasion to celebrate their single life! Singles are often more social and outgoing than those in relationships, and they enjoy many of the benefits they miss out on, like more time and money, more control over their schedule, and the ability to put their needs first. You might find that you love your single life, and you don't want a partner. Or, you might want a partner but are okay with enjoying your single life while you search for romance. Whatever your feelings, it's important to remember that Valentine's Day is a holiday geared toward couples. You don't need a romantic relationship to have a special day. Celebrate your single life by going out with friends, treating yourself to something special, or throwing a singles party where the focus isn't on finding a partner but on having a fun night out with friends.

Get pampered

Spending Valentine's Day alone can be depressing, but being pampered can help lift your spirits. Treat yourself to a fancy manicure or pedicure, get a haircut, or visit your masseur for a soothing session. You can also plan a pampering day with friends, couples, or your significant other. Spend Valentine's Day getting pampered, and you'll walk away feeling relaxed and refreshed!

Throw a singles party

If you're feeling lonely or down on Valentine's Day, throw a singles party where you're the host. You can create a theme and invite your single friends, coupled up, and everything in between. A singles party is something different and fun, and it'll help you get out of your rut on Valentine's Day. Make it a party for all of your friends so no one feels left out.

Enjoy a special outing

If you're single, Valentine's Day can feel like a day to be pitied or avoided. But it doesn't have to be that way. Enjoy a special outing with friends or family that is Valentine's Day-themed, like a comedy show or a special exhibit at a nearby museum. Or, enjoy something that's not Valentine's Day related. Go to a game, see a movie, go for a walk, or read a book. You can even plan a special outing for yourself and your dog. Enjoy a special outing and don't let the fact that you're single detract from the day.

Spend Time With Friends

If you're single, Valentine's Day can be a day of feeling alone and left out, but spending time with friends helps alleviate that. If you're single and your friends are coupled, invite them over for a fun night in with food and board games or a movie. You don't have to be alone on Valentine's Day, and spending time with friends is a great way to get through the day without feeling lonely.

Take Yourself on a Date

If you're single, spend some time on a date with yourself. Treat yourself to a spa visit, go shopping, or treat yourself to a nice dinner at the best restaurant in town. You can even make a day of it and go to one place in the morning and another in the evening. Whatever you do, take yourself on a date, and don't feel guilty about it. You deserve to treat yourself to something special, especially if you're single.

Live in the Moment

If you're feeling lonely and depressed on Valentine's Day because you're single, try to live in the moment. Focus on what's happening around you, like a beautiful view, an interesting conversation, or the fact that you don't have to clean the house. Be present and focus on what you're doing, and you'll feel less lonely and depressed. You can't change the past, but you can change the way you think about Valentine's Day as a single man.

Embrace the Single Life

Finally, if you're single on Valentine's Day, embrace the single life. Realize that Valentine's Day is geared toward couples and that you'll have to deal with the pity and attention from others (and maybe even yourself) as a single man. It doesn't have to be a bad day, and it doesn't have to be a bad life. Enjoy being single and embrace your freedom. You don't have to spend Valentine's Day feeling lonely, depressed, and sorry for yourself. You can make the day special in any way you choose, no matter your relationship status.